Beauty and the Beast. Cupid and Psyche. The Donkey
Prince. What do these myths/fairy tales have in common?
A time-tested romantic archetype—the monster whose
humanity must be restored through love.
The fairy tale Beast has made himself a monster.
He’s committed acts so inhumane, he’s cursed with an exterior as ugly as his
heart. Cupid, the Roman god of love, falls in love with the human Psyche, but
like all ‘rock stars’ he’s afraid she’ll love him only because of who he is,
his incredible beauty, and not for himself. He pretends to be a horrible
monster and keeps her literally in the dark to see if he can win her love by
his actions. The Donkey Prince is cursed at birth with a donkey’s body due to
his parents’ actions. Determined to be accepted, he learns to play beautiful
music, wear fine clothes, and behave with princely manners, but nothing will
hide his donkey features.
They’re monsters, regardless of the reason, because
that’s how they show themselves to the world.
How do they deal with it? The Beast withdraws,
drowning in his misery and guilt. Cupid hides behind darkness and deceives his
bride and her family. The Donkey Prince picks up his lute and seeks solace in
his music.
What can save them? A woman courageous enough to
withstand everything the monstrous exterior can throw at her because her
compassionate heart detects the spark of humanity within.
With patience and prodding, Beauty digs the Beast
out of selfish misery to selfless caring. Psyche pursues her man/god through
all the trials his mother Venus throws at her to convince Cupid (and his
mother) she fell in love with the beast long before she knew he was a god. The
princess falls in love with the heart of the donkey who can make such beautiful
music, and he sheds his animal skin.
Why do we love these monster-heroes?
Because each of us yearns to be seen for who we
truly are rather than what we look like. We don’t want to be books judged by
our covers. Look inside. Read our
pages. Discover our stories. Every
time one of these monster-heroes is redeemed and revealed, it’s an affirmation
that love truly does see with the heart and not with society’s eyes.
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